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Ready to get married the halal way? Find your other half on SOK Match: https://sokmatch.com/yt/qna-marriage-3 Her father does not pray or fast and has said questionable things about Islam, yet also says inshaAllah and mashaAllah and says he would pray if he had time. Can he be a valid wali for her nikah? Ustadh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan: first advise him, or find someone he listens to. Some of the people of ilm say he cannot be the wali, some say he is still her wali, and both opinions are strong. Do not take changing the wilayah lightly: it goes to a Muslim judge or an official mufti, or an Islamic centre in a non-Muslim country, never into your own hands. From the Marriage Q&A session of SOK Academy with SOK Match. https://www.sokacademy.com/yt/qna-marriage-3 (online academy): Courses taught by Sheikh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan following the literature of the prominent scholars of Islamic history Social Media of Ustadh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan hafidhahullah: https://linktr.ee/gardenofilm Question number three, if my family doesn't pray or fast, has said questionable things in regards to Islam but also say things that could indicate some good, like saying inshaAllah, mashaAllah, subhanAllah, when he sees something that amazes him, telling my brother and I he would pray if he had time, can he be a valid wali for me in doing nikah and if he cannot be a valid wali in nikah, how can I avoid offending him? First of all, try to advise him and if he doesn't listen from you or your brothers, maybe you seek somebody out, you seek someone out who he listens to, inshaAllah 'azza wa jall. As for in regards to him being wali or not, in the state that he's in where he doesn't pray, fasting, you said nor fast, he neither prays nor fasts, but when it comes to prayer, some of the people with ilm said he cannot be the wali. This is the same, he cannot be the wali. And don't take it lightly, don't take it lightly in terms of changing the wilaya. It's not something as easy as okay, I'll find somebody else to become my wali. That's not it. You have to go for a Muslim judge. And one country is different from another and you see if they change the wilaya or not. And you go to an official mufti, these are big, big issues, not something that is easy like this. And if you're in a disbelieving country and you have none of this, then you have Islamic centers. They can get in touch with the muftis or they themselves handle stuff like this. So you should always seek these out and not just take matters into your own hands. That being said, some of the people with ilm, as I told you, they said that no, he cannot be the wali. And some of the people with ilm, they said he's still her wali. And which one is the correct opinion? Allah knows best. Both of them are strong. #Wali #Nikah #QandA #SOKAcademy #AbdulAzizAlHaqqan
