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By Rasheed Barbee A discussion on 12 rights of a wife over her husband. From the seminar, The Rights of the Spouses (September 2013), Toronto, Canada. Original audio: https://www.troid.org/the-rights-of-the-wife-rights-of-spouses/ Key points - 4:35 1. Spending upon her (food, clothing, housing) 6:13 2. Be kind to her 7:11 3. Do not beat her 11:35 4. Love her: a - with your tongue (say nice and kind words to her) b - lie to keep the peace c - beautify yourself (keep clean, haircut, dress properly) d - help around the house (cleaning, cooking) e - be playful f - sharing food with her (eat and drink the same place she does) g - cuddle with her (even if she is on her menses) h - sleep under the same blanket (even if she is on her menses) i - bathe together. 23:56 5. Don't curse or insult her 25:13 6. Don't abandon or boycott her (if required to reprimand her, then it can only be in the house) 26:00 7. Don't expose her secrets 26:36 8. Don't be angry or hate her for small things (don't focus on her mistakes all the times) 28:14 9. Be easygoing (be considerate of her feelings) 30:15 10. Be on your best behavior with her. 34:17 11. Be the reason why she is saved from hell (teach her about Islam) 41:17 12. Have protective jealousy for her (ghayrah)
