Important Principle in Ordering the Good and Forbidding the Evil - Sheikh Muhammad Hisham Tahiri

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Translation text: بَابُ قَوْلِ الرَّجُلِ لِلْمَرْأَةِ عِنْدَ الْقَبْرِ : اصْبِرِي Chapter: The Statement of a man to a woman by a grave: "Be Patient." حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ ، حَدَّثَنَا ثَابِتٌ ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ، قَالَ : Ādam narrated to us, he said Shu'ba narrated to us, he said Thābit narrated to us, from Anas bin Mālik (May Allah be pleased with him), he said: مَرَّ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِامْرَأَةٍ عِنْدَ قَبْرٍ وَهِيَ تَبْكِي، فَقَالَ : " اتَّقِي اللَّهَ وَاصْبِرِي ". The Prophet ﷺ passed by a woman near a grave and she was crying, so he said: "Fear Allāh and have patience". يعني استدل بهذا الحديث من يرى جواز زيارة النساء للمقابر This Hadith is used as evidence by those who see the permissibility of the women visiting the graveyards, وليس فيه دلالة and there is no indication (of this ruling) in it لأن الأحاديث التي تدل على النهي واضحة جلية because the Ahādith that prove the impermissibility are clear and apparent. لعن الله زوارات القبور The Prophet ﷺ said, "Allāh has cursed the female visitors of the graves". لكن هذه المرأة هي ارتكبت عدة محظورات However, this woman had committed multiple impermissible acts: جاءت عند القبر وصارت تبكي وتنوح she had come to the grave and began to cry and wail, ومعلوم أن النياحة أعظم وأخطر من زيارتها للقبر and it is known that wailing is more severe and dangerous than her visiting the grave, فنهاها النبي ﷺ عن الأعظم ولم تجب so the Prophet ﷺ forbade her from the greater evil, but she did not listen, فما فيه داعي أن تنهى عن الأدنى so there was no reason to forbid her from the lesser evil. وهذه قاعدة في الأمر بالمعروف والنهي عن المنكر This is a principle in commanding the good and forbidding the evil: أن الإنسان إذا رأى إنسانا على منكر فينهي عن الأكبر لا الأدنى if a person sees a someone upon evil, then he should forbid him from the greater, not the lesser evil. يعني إنسان ما يصلي For example, a person does not pray; وقد أقيمت الصلاة وهو يدخن the prayer is called and he is smoking. ما تقول له لا تدخن You do not say: "Do not smoke!". بل تقول له روح صل Rather you say: "Go and pray!" فالإنسان لا بد أن يفهم So, a person must understand that هذا مراد الحديث this is the intent of the Hadith, وليس معناه إقرار النبي ﷺ لفعلها ومجيئها عند القبر not that the Prophet ﷺ approved of her action - coming to the grave. نعم Yes. ----------------------------------------------------- Rabbaniyeen ربانيين 🔴اليوتيوب🔴👇 https://www.youtube.com/@rabbaniyeen 🔴الانستجرام🔴👇 https://www.instagram.com/rabbaniyeen/ 🔴التيليغرام🔴👇 https://t.me/Rabbaniyeen