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Need to ask a question privately? Book your session https://onewaytotarbiyah.podia.com/askabumussab 🕒 30- or 60-minute (paid) sessions 🔒 100% confidential 💻 Held over video call, wherever you are Is a large age gap a deal-breaker in marriage? The answer isn't as simple as **yes** or **no**. In this reminder, Abu Mussab explains the balance found in the Sunnah. While the Prophet ﷺ encouraged young men to marry young virgin women as the general recommendation, Islam does not prohibit marrying an older woman. In fact, there may be genuine wisdom and benefit in doing so depending on a person's circumstances. Before making such a life-changing decision, ask yourself: • What are your long-term goals? • Do you hope to have children? • Are you prepared for the realities that may come with a significant age difference? • Have you truly considered the future rather than only the present? The Companion who married an older woman had a valid reason for doing so, and the Prophet ﷺ approved of his decision after hearing his circumstances. This teaches us that while there is a general guideline, every situation should be evaluated on its own merits. Above all, don't forget the greatest means of seeking the right spouse: **Pray Ṣalaat al-Istikhaarah.** Only Allaah knows what is truly best for your dunya and your Aakhirah. May Allaah grant every Muslim a righteous spouse, bless their marriages with love, mercy, and tranquillity, and guide us to decisions that bring us closer to Him. Aameen. #Marriage #Nikah #Istikharah #Islam #AbuMussab #OneWayToParadise #MuslimMarriage #QuranAndSunnah Clip from: #5 Soorah Al-Mumtahanah/ Aayat 12 - 13 / Abu Mussab Wajdi Akkari https://youtube.com/live/a_OT1N-czng
