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It doesn’t always look like “mistreating” your wife. Sometimes it’s cutting her off mid-sentence because you think you know what she’ll say, or scrolling through your phone while she’s telling you about her day, or brushing off her feelings with “you’re overreacting”. Little by little, these moments chip away at trust, affection, and respect until your wife feels unseen in her own home. In this video, Ustadh Abdulrahman Hassan shares 25 major mistakes Muslim men make: the kinds of actions and habits that lead to failed marriages, constant conflict, or homes with no real happiness. He highlights what the Qur’an and Sunnah teach about a husband’s role, how the Prophet ﷺ treated his wives, and the practical steps every Muslim man can take to bring back mercy and love into his marriage. Whether you’re preparing for marriage or already a husband, this is advice you won’t get in casual talks, but it could save your marriage from quiet collapse. Timestamps: 00:00 Precap & Introduction 04:18 Dealing With the Mother vs. Wife Conflict 08:55 Unnecessarily Doubting One’s Wife 10:16 Having Poor Protective Jealousy 14:19 Belittling the Wife 18:38 Misusing One’s Leadership 22:50 Letting the Wife Work 24:37 Neglecting the Wife’s Islamic Education 26:44 Being Stingy 29:26 Not Informing of One’s Arrival 31:13 Excessively Criticising the Wife 35:02 Not Praising the Wife for Her Good 37:29 Debating Constantly 40:14 Prolonging Boycotts 42:20 Spending Little Time With Family 44:06 Bad Dealings With the Wife 46:21 Not Dressing Up Properly 47:48 Disregarding Making Du’a 49:44 Not Observing Intimacy 52:04 Not Keeping Secrets 53:17 Being Inconsiderate During Her Menses 55:20 Beating One’s Wife 56:46 Hastening Towards Divorce 57:38 Imposing Blame After Divorce 58:19 Forsaking the Children 59:36 Not Fulfilling Promises 01:00:02 Never Content With the Wife Sign up now to AMAU Academy: https://www.amauacademy.com/ AMAU Academy: https://www.amauacademy.com/ AMAU Junior: https://amaujunior.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amauofficial/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AMAU Telegram: https://t.me/amauofficial YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/AMAUofficial Twitter: https://twitter.com/AMAUofficial iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/al-madrasatu-al-umariyyah/id1524526782 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/08NJC1pIA0maaF6aKqZL4N Get in Touch: https://amau.org/getintouch BarakAllahu feekum. #AMAU #marriage #muslim #nikah #islamicknowledge
