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كلمة مؤثرة Touching Words _________________________ التلفون وكل شي The phone and everything else. ماذا تقدم لوالديك What do you actually do to (serve) your parents? أكثر الناس الآن قد استغنى عن أولاده Most parents these days have given up on receiving any support from their children. يريدون جلسة منك All they (the parents) want from you is to sit with them. يريدون ابتسامة They want a smile from you. يريدون أن تجلس بلا هاتف حطه في السيارة وانزل They want you to sit with them without your phone. Leave it in the car and then go see them. تكلم معاه نص ساعة سولف معاهم Talk to them even for half an hour. Just chat with them. كثير منا مايقدم برّاً Most of us are not dutiful to our parents. قد لايكون عاقًّا We might not be disobedient… هذا إذا مو ...العقوق كثير عسى الله يغفر لنا أجمعين Disobedience is widespread; we ask Allah to forgive us all. لكن ما البرّ However, what does being dutiful to your parents mean? البرّ من باب الأمر والعقوق من باب النهي Being dutiful falls under the commands, and disobedience falls under prohibitions. فلا يكفي أن لاتكون عاقًّا So, it’s not sufficient that you are not disobedient. ما البرّ الذي تقدمه لوالديك How are you fulfilling your duties to your parents? فراجع نفسك ياعبدالله So, question yourself oh slave of Allah. مهما صنعت أنت مقصر No matter what you do, you are not fulfilling your duties. جزا الوالدين مايلحقه أحد ولكن سدّدوا وقاربوا No one can ever fulfill the rights of their parents. Nevertheless, (you should) strive to do your best and what is right. حسّن من أخلاقك مع والديك Improve your manners with your parents. أضف شيء إلى ماتفعل Add more than what you are already doing towards them. قم ببرِّهما أدخل السرور عليهما إجلس معهما تواصل معهما Fulfil their duties, make them happy, sit with them, keep in touch with them. يعني تعقب أمورهما مالذي ينقصهما اليوم السوّاق والخدم والتوصيل للمنازل قد كفو الأولاد كلّ شيء Follow up on their needs. Today, drivers, servants and home deliveries have released the children from all of their duties. الخدم اليوم أحسن من الأولاد Today, servants are better than the children. بقي شيء من البر شيء من السعادة تدخلها على والديك So, all that’s remaining is for you to bring some happiness into their hearts. على الأقل لاتضرهما حافظ على دراستك حافظ على وظيفتك حافظ على علاقتك مع زوجتك مايريدون مشاكل At least don’t harm them! Take care of your studies, your job, and your relationship with your spouse. They don’t want to hear that you have any problems. مايريدون يسمعون عنك إلّا خيرا They only want to hear all good things about you. يريدون أن يجدونك سعيداً حتى يسعدوا They want to find you happy so that they become happy. حتى يطمئنّوا So, they can be at ease. تابع هذا الأمر الجلل العظيم Follow up on this important matter, الذي ذكره الله جلّ وعلا فجعله حقًّا بعد حقِّهِ which Allah has mentioned and made it a right second to His own right. فقال جلّ وعلا : (( وقضى ربك ألا تعبدوا إلّا إيّاه )) قال (( وبالوالدين إحسانا )) He said: "And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents" (Surah Al-Isra: 23). قال (( واعبدوا الله ولا تشركوا به شيئا )) (( وبالوالدين إحسانا )) He said: "Worship Allah and join none with Him in worship, and do good to parents" (Al-Nisa: 36). لم عقَّبَ الله عز وجل بالأمر بالإحسان للوالدين Why did Allah the Exalted order us to be dutiful to our parents بعد الأمر بعبادته جل وعلا وحده لا شريك له after ordering us to worship Him alone the Exalted? لأهمية هذا الجلل العظيم Because of this enormous important matter. هذا عمل عظيم باب من أبواب الجنة This is a great matter which is a door from the doors of Jannah (paradise). وعليك بكثرة الاستغفار لهما حتى لو ماتا And you should frequently ask Allah to forgive them even after their death. حتى لو ماتا بعض الناس له والد أو والدان قد ماتا يذكرهما لا يقول غفر الله لهما أو رحمه الله Even after their death. Some people remember their dead parents in an occasion but do not ask Allah to forgive or have mercy on them. والله مره الوالد كذا حصل ك
