Live Webinar for Parents || Common Mistakes in Tarbiyah of Children || Ustadh Abdulrahman Hassan

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0:00:00 - Introduction 0:00:24 - Thankfulness and warm welcome 0:00:54 - Common mistakes in Tarbiyah of children 0:01:30 - Parents have rights over children and vice versa 0:02:09 - Children are an amanah placed upon you 0:02:45 - A question we must ask ourselves. 0:04:50 - “O those who believe” requires an attentive ear 0:05:45 - How do you feel if someone deceives you? 0:06:17 - Allah tells us to save ourselves and our family 0:07:45 - Do you love your child to protect him/her from the hellfire? 0:09:03 - Each of you is a shepherd for his flock and you will be questioned 0:10:56 - O brother who has forsaken his wife! 0:11:50 - You will be asked and it requires an answer on the day of judgement. 0:12:00 - O sister you will be asked about your husband and children! 0:13:35 - Prepare an answer in front of Allah 0:14:00 - A righteous person comes from a righteous household 0:14:14 - The house is the first madrasah 0:16:00 - The apple does not fall far from the tree 0:17:04 - Hadith whoever forsakes his responsibilities paradise will be forbidden for him 0:19:43 - Lines of poetry 0:22:13 - First mistake: nurturing children upon fear 0:25:47 - Second mistake: nurturing children to speak back to adults 0:27:24 - Third mistake: nurturing children upon ill discipline 0:31:30 - Fourth mistake: giving children everything they ask for without limit 0:34:25 - Fifth mistake: giving the child as soon as they cry 0:38:15 - Sixth mistake: buying children cars whilst they are young 0:39:50 - Seventh mistake: critiquing and beating children over every matter 0:41:15 - Eighth mistake: excessive stinginess 0:42:04 - Ninth mistake: lack of love, affection and attention 0:44:02 -Tenth mistake: working entirely on the outer appearance 0:49:08 -Eleventh mistake: going extreme in thinking good about your children 0:51:37 - Twelfth mistake: going extreme in thinking bad about your children 0:53:19 - Thirteenth mistake: favouritism in children 0:56:40 - Fourteenth mistake: displeasure at birth of daughters 0:58:24 - Fifteenth mistake: giving children bad names 0:59:42 - Sixteenth mistake: father spending excessive time outside the house 01:04:07 - Seventeenth mistake: cursing your children from anger 01:05:15 - Eighteenth mistake: allowing children imitate bad people 01:07:56 - Nineteenth mistake: committing evil in front of children 01:09:25 - Twentieth mistake: bringing evil into the house 01:11:10 - Twenty first mistake: parents fighting in front of children 01:19:50 - Twenty second mistake: fulfilling your promises 01:21:11 - Twenty third mistake: do not let the maid raise your children 01:22:51 - Twenty fourth mistake: letting daughters go out with mahram 01:25:12 - Twenty fifth mistake: giving children mobile phones 01:26:04 - Twenty sixth mistake: heedlessness in what children read 01:26:41 - Twenty seventh mistake: constantly belittling the children 01:27:38 - Twenty eighth mistake: teaching responsibility to children whilst they are young 01:29:32 - Twenty ninth mistake: not giving child room for self rectification 01:30:49 - Thirtieth mistake: not knowing your children’s nature 01:32:09 - Thirty first mistake: not treating them according to the child’s age 01:33:10 - Thirty second mistake: fathers blaming the mother and vice versa 01:34:13 - Thirty third mistake: not giving importance to the child’s school 01:36:28 - Would you trust your wealth with others? 01:37:05 - Thirty fourth mistake: parents being disconnected from teachers 01:38:19 - Overview 01:37:49 - Q&A 01:39:18 - Until what age are parents responsible for children’s Tarbiyah? 01:41:35 - Did you consider who your spouse is before marriage? 01:42:10 - Advice to single mothers 01:51:10 - How to rectify mistakes made with children? 01:52:51 -Conclusion This is a special live webinar organized by AMAU for Muslim parents across the world that touches an important topic titled "Common Mistakes in Tarbiyah of Children" Instagram: https://www.instag